In our first home—a cozy 1950s ranch shared with my husband and our dog—I’ve gone all in on decorating: stripes on the powder bath walls, botanical-print Roman shades in the kitchen, and chintz linens in a deep, British racing green on our bed. It’s a look that might not be for everyone, but it’s one that brings me joy.

As a home editor at Southern Living, it’s my job to keep up with design trends—what’s hot, what’s fading, and what’s around the corner. We often publish articles like “8 Things That Make Your Dining Room Look Dated, According to Designers” or “Dining Room Trends Designers Are Excited for in 2025,” and, inevitably, someone in the comments reminds us, “It’s my house, and I’ll do it my way.” Fair point, and one I totally respect.

Living by (and Loving) Your Own Style

Decorating trends are fascinating because they give us a glimpse into the world of design, but they’re not rules. There’s no need to change out your velvet dining chairs or swap out that wallpaper simply because someone says it’s “out.” Our homes are meant to reflect who we are, not a rotating list of designer-approved colors and fabrics.

The truth is, even if I wanted to follow every trend, I couldn’t afford to. The sofa my husband and I bought from a staging showroom two years ago may not be the “right” shade of caramel-colored bouclé that designers are loving now, but it’s ours. And frankly, removing it would be a nightmare since we had to make a hole in the wall to fit it through in the first place.

Decorating trends are fun. They’re a chance to see how designers are pushing boundaries, trying out new ideas, and occasionally challenging traditional norms. But just because something is “in” doesn’t mean we all need to embrace it. Trend articles are here to offer inspiration, to give a peek into what’s possible, and to let you take what you like and leave the rest.

Next time a trend article pops up in your feed, see it as an invitation to try something new if it resonates with you—or to feel content if you’re happy with your home just as it is.

So go ahead, keep decorating your way. Embrace the quirks, the history, and the moments that make your space uniquely yours. After all, that’s what makes a house truly feel like a home.

And please, keep those comments coming—we love hearing your thoughts!

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